I was out with Deborah last night. It was a fun night. When I met her she was waiting for me in a bar. There were a bunch of AMOGs to content with who were trying to hit on her. I joined in and won them over through story telling about the Scottish guy in Madrid (one of the AMOGs was wearing a kilt). I showed them I was not going to stand by and let them sarge Deborah, so I won them over a little, built rapport, and then when I was in control of the situation I turned off the rapport and shut them out. They left after that.
Kissed with Deborah and kinoed all night.
I do enjoy being with a nice girl. She took me to a bar that I didn’t know about (close to the Tonguedown Bar) and it was FULL of HBs. There were more HBs in that place than men. I will return there without Deborah some time soon.
I was C&F most of the night but at times I was slipping into the male friend role. I knew it was happening, and made sure to not be a shoulder for her to cry onto. I kept the humour and underlying themes of sex and excitement going. She responds well to visualising and role playing. I need to do more of that in the future and steer away from too serious discussions.
When she meets me I think she wants to look back on it and see it as a fun time.