When girls are at the height of their monthly fertility, their minds subconsciously interact with their bodies.

There’s been research on this done recently:

http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn16262-fertile-women-more-open-to-corny-chatup-lines.html

Does the mind rule the body or the body rule the mind? It’s a bit of both.

I wonder if it is something akin to a male being in state. I’m not saying it is a monthly cycle or anything. But there are some nights when we go out and we rule. We are in state and confident and it flows. Is that not something similar i.e. a way of showing value in our own, male, way?

What runs this or contributes to it? Controlling our submodalities, controlling our states.

And these are/can be influenced in a secondary way by other factors such as having been social proofed. This can result in a synergy where our state glows because of our social proof. This boost in state can cause us to be more talkative and confident, thus allowing us to interact more and better with others. This results in more social proof. It’s a healthy cycle to get caught up in, or to seek to develop, too.

Time and again, I find that PU is a numbers game as well as skill. I have spend half an hour (or MORE!) on a girl, trying to get her to open up and say something I can lock onto. The more I plow, the less interested she’ll tend to get UNLESS I either gain a ‘hit’ – a bridge into her world which singles me out as someone having large potential and uniqueness OR unless I am social proofed. If I am social proofed, I find plowing can work for me. But the others are giving me the value – or it SEEMS that way. She might not realise that I have engineered that value myself.

Many other times, I will meet a horny girl who is up for it and I end up asking myself why anyone would bother wasting time on girls who are semi-interested at best. Right in front of me is a horny chick who is into it from the early stages and I can convert it with less effort. And these early conversions are not all low quality or low self esteem. Remarkable, some chicks have been hot and easy lays and still really into me in the longer term even after just a shortish interaction.

Lots of ideas there. Does it boil down to that old idea of clicking with someone who has what you want? It might, and as decent PUAs we can or at least should be able to give them what they want while at the same time taking what we want too. Win-win.

 PS I am heading back to England in January.

Stevie